Achievement Unlocked: Lap Typing

This is a new one for me; I was able to type some of my blog entries today on my lap. Using a laptop. Go figure!

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In the past, my stomach was too large to allow me the freedom, flexibility, and let’s face it, the room to place a laptop on my lap with the ability to actually type. This is another new sensation to me, one that people who have never been as large as I was take for granted. Here’s a picture that shows why it was so impossible for me before.

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The number of new experiences for me as a thinner and more fit person doesn’t seem to be ending as I’m finding new things to enjoy. I look forward to each new discovery and sensation as a healthier person thanks to Paleo and Whole30.

Is Paleo for Weight Loss?

I am often asked if the diet I’m on is for weight loss. This misconception comes from the common colloquial use of the word, “Diet” which people would define as a temporary eating regimen whose goal is to lose weight. However, the original (and first) definition of the word Diet is:

The kinds of food that a person, animal, or community habitually eats.

Only in the past 70 years has the second definition come into use:

A special course of food to which one restricts oneself, either to lose weight or for medical reasons.

Sherry and I adopted a Paleo lifestyle (notice I rarely say “Paleo Diet”) after completing our first Whole30. We did so for many reasons; chief among them was to get healthy and to lose weight. We had high expectations but little faith, yet we put our faith into the science of it and followed the rules. We were rewarded with results beyond our expectations, and a year later, combined we have lost over 175 lbs (I have lost 110 lbs while Sherry has lost 65 lbs). That’s the weight of an entire grown man!

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Sherry and me in 2013 and in 2016 after adopting the Paleo lifestyle.

One major thing we decided when we adopted the Paleo lifestyle was that it was a change we were making for the rest of our lives. It was not a temporary eating plan. We changed our relationship with food and said goodbye to those foods that were harming us and keeping us from being our best selves. Since starting Paleo, we’ve found ourselves being more concerned with the quality of the foods we’re eating. We tend to buy more organic foods, and buy meats that are drug-free and ethically treated. The Paleo lifestyle is more than just a way of eating, and we find ourselves learning more and more about healthier ways to live.

I am not advocating anyone go all-in on the lifestyle, but I am advocating the diet portion of the lifestyle. The science is solid, and the results I’ve seen, that Sherry has seen, and many of our friends and family are experiencing have shown me that with a mere change in diet, we can improve our health and lose weight. Our bodies want to be thin. Our bodies want to run efficiently. Eating good, natural, whole foods allows our bodies to run lean and mean. Give it the right fuel and you will get a healthy, lean, and thinner body.

How is the exercise going?

I’ve been asked this question a lot lately: “How goes the exercise?” I’ve thought about it, and here’s my answer.


Yesterday, I posted about not needing exercise to lose weight. That is true. Exercise IS good for you, and I have never, nor will I ever dispute that fact. However, it’s no secret that I’m not a fan of it, and I don’t like doing it. With that said, I’ve accepted the fact that for me to continue losing weight and getting the body shape that I want, I have to do something more than what I’ve been doing. Therefore, I’ve begun with push ups.

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Why push ups? It’s one of the exercises that can be done to strengthen your core, arms, and back. Also, I have a pulled muscle on the right side of my back that hurts terribly when I do kettle bells but doesn’t hurt when I do push ups. So, for now, I’m stuck with push ups and planks.

I will be adding some other exercises like crunches and what we in the Marines called Mountain Climbers, but that’s about it for now. I have said before that I’m easing gently into this exercise thing because 100% of the times I’ve tried in the past to get back into it, I’ve injured myself. I’m not allowing that to happen again. Also, have you heard I don’t like exercise?

I have been able to increase my number of push ups, and on some days, I even do them twice. I’m not doing push ups to failure. I’m not interested in strength or bulking. I just want flexibility and fitness. So far, I’m pretty pleased with the changes I’ve noticed in the past few weeks, and I’m looking forward to continuing the trends I’m seeing.

So, short answer is: it’s going well enough. It hasn’t killed me yet, so it must be making me stronger.

Weight Loss for People with Physical Limitations

I just read another Facebook post by someone who has been injured and has been unable to exercise. I get it; I’ve been there. Using injury as a crutch to be fat was a specialty of mine (I’m not implying that the person making the Facebook post was doing this. I used to do that!). What made me sad was that this person still believed that exercise was the key to weight loss.

90% OF WEIGHT LOSS IS WHAT YOU PUT IN YOUR BODY. 10% IS EXERCISE.

I know this is a fact because I lost 110 lbs in one year without exercise. You read that right. I did nothing. Sure, I dabbled here and there with some physical activity, but nothing regimented and definitely nothing that would make me sweat. I only recently began doing push ups daily, but that’s a far cry from an exercise regimen. I’m working up to it, and I’ll get there someday (soon, I hope!), but for now, I’m still living an exercise-free life and still losing weight.

If you’re putting off losing weight because you think you need to exercise, stop. Stop buying into the hype and marketing that losing weight means sweating. It does not. Not even a little. “But I know people who have lost weight by exercising!” you’re thinking, and you’re not mistaken. People who exercise tend to eat better and pay attention to the quality of the food they are putting into their bodies. My sister is phenomenally fit, and she eats foods I would never even consider eating, but she eats them in very small quantities and she also exercises more than 90% of exercising people I know. Not only is she limiting her caloric intake, but she’s exerting far more than the average gym rat.

“So you’re saying that I can lose weight just by eating certain foods?” YES I AM! I did it. Look at this picture of me before and after. Bear in mind that the only difference between the two photos is 10 months and a different diet.

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No, I’m not skinny (yet!), but I’m no longer obese. Also, I didn’t do some sort of weight loss diet like Adkins or the Cabbage Soup diet. I changed my eating habits and adopted the Paleo Lifestyle after doing a Whole30.

You can lose weight without exercise. You can have two broken legs and lose weight. You can be a paraplegic and lose weight. All you have to do is eat right.

I’m not taking anything away from those who love to exercise, or who use exercise to be fit. I just don’t want anyone to believe that if you can’t exercise, you can’t lose weight, or worse, if you don’t exercise you won’t lose weight. That’s complete BS, and I’d be very incredulous of any fitness “Expert” who tells you that working out is the only way to lose weight. I’d stay very clear of anyone who spews that BS.

Take it from a guy who lost 110 lbs in one year without exercise: change your diet, eat healthy, and just get up and move a little, and you will lose weight.

Planning for Vacation

The last major trip Sherry and I took was to Vancouver and Seattle, and it was a completely new experience traveling while thinner. Our last trip overseas was in 2014, and I weighed over 310 lbs. Sitting in the seat on the plane was tight, walking all over Budapest and Vienna was hard for me to do, and in some ways, I think our enjoyment of the cities was hampered by my weight. I was limited in the amount of activity I could do each day.

trippicIn Seattle and Vancouver, the opposite was true. We did so much each day, we couldn’t believe we were getting it all in. On our first and second day, I was literally running from place to place as I was so filled with energy and excitement that Sherry literally had to chase after me. She was laughing most of the time because it was such a contrast to our last major trip.

On Monday night, we found ourselves planning our next major overseas trip: Spain. I am really looking forward to it, not only because I have yet to visit Spain, but because we are once again traveling with our good friends Kenny and Elaine with whom we went to Hungary and Austria with in 2014. We’ve done some smaller trips with them as well, and it turns out we travel well together. The main difference this time will be the fact that I’m over 125 lbs lighter than I was on the previous trips. I’m really looking forward to all aspects of it now, as well as the walking, hiking, and exploring.

What’s all this Paleo stuff about, anyway?

File_000It’s funny. When people find out I used to weigh over 310 lbs, they get excited and want to know how I lost the weight. When I say the word, “Paleo,” the reaction I most often get is what I can only imagine the reaction would be if I told them, “I have a third eye on the back of my head.”

The name Paleo has some baggage; mostly from our learning about cavemen in school. When I say I eat a Paleo diet, I’m sure lots of people are wondering where I get the mammoth meat from, or if I run from sabretooth tigers. Others, still, think it’s a fad or a craze and that I’m not only denying myself entire food groups, but that I’m eating things like raw meat and grass. OK, I will admit that I like my steaks medium rare.

It’s a shame, because eating Paleo is really eating healthy. It’s avoiding foods that have incredibly high carbohydrate content which is where the fat in our bodies comes from. It’s also focused on eating foods that don’t have additives, chemicals, or drugs (for the meat), and ethical treatment of animals is also taken into consideration by many who live Paleo.

Sherry and I have been at it for a year now, and we can’t be any happier with our diet. Sure, it’s challenging sometimes to find foods in restaurants that are Paleo, but it’s not as hard as you might think. What is amazing to me is how challenging it is to find simple foods like nuts in the grocery store without it having some sort of wheat, soy, or sugar additive.

I’ve had people ask me if Paleo is like Adkins, and I usually tell them, “Mostly,” but not exactly.

Compared to Paleo, there is some overlap between the foods to include (meat, vegetables, and fats) and the foods to avoid (grains), but in the end Atkins is a diet for weight loss, while Paleo is a diet for health. –Paleoleap.com

I’m sure you’re saying, “Ok, so what about the specific differences?” I’ve got that answer for you as well:

Accordingly, Atkins is focused primarily on macronutrient ratios, while Paleo is focused primarily on food quality (eating plenty of nutrients while avoiding toxins). Paleo can be low-carb, but it doesn’t have to be. –Paleoleap.com

Sherry and I have adopted the lifestyle and we have lost weight, improved our health, and we have not suffered nor have we been hungry. Heck, we’ve been enjoying the food and all the new flavors! We’ve even found restaurants locally that cater to Paleo clientele, and the food there is simply inspiring!

Do I miss pizza, pasta, and bread? Honestly, not anymore. I did for a while in the beginning, but now, it’s not something I crave or miss. There are so many other things I eat now that are delicious and satisfying that those other things don’t factor anymore.

If you’ve been looking past Paleo because of it’s name, I implore you to give it a chance. Do some research, read some sites, and look at the science of it all. It’s not hard to understand, and it’s not too complicated. The information you read can change your life. Heck, it might even save it. It saved mine.