Eat until you’re full.

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This is a salmon dish Sherry made a while back. Delicious and filling!

I don’t count calories. I don’t watch my macros. I don’t weigh my food before I eat it. I just eat enough to feel full. Well, that is, I do now. I knew I was supposed to do that, and when Sherry and I started our first Whol30, it was one of the hardest things to get used to. I always thought I was overeating when in actuality, I was just eating what my body wanted. A year later, I found myself no longer losing weight despite my eating smaller meals. I thought that as I got smaller, my meals should get smaller, too, and that I was just doing what I was supposed to do to keep losing weight. Except I forgot one thing: my body knows how much food it needs better than I think it does.

Let me explain: I was sticking to 2 eggs and 2 slices of bacon for breakfast. I enjoy it, it tastes good, and it keeps me full until around 10 am. Then, I would start to get hungry. I eat lunch at 11 am and I would start feeling hungry again around 4 pm. Because I typically try to eat dinner with Sherry, that means no food until around 6-7 pm. That’s a long stretch to go without food, and all while being hungry!

The worst part is that my weight loss stopped around two months ago. I’ve been hovering at a low for months now despite my physical activity. Then it dawned on me as I was giving advice to someone who is adopting Paleo themselves: eat until you’re full. Of course, that doesn’t mean go hog wild, but eating slowly, your body will reach a point at which it tells you that its full, and then you should just stop eating. I was not doing this.

For the past two weeks, I’ve been eating more food. It felt weird at the beginning, to eat more food to lose weight, but it turned out I was right. I wasn’t eating enough. Now, I’m back to losing weight; two solid weeks of weight loss are now behind me. Of course, now that I weigh less, the number of pounds I lose is less, but as a percentage, it’s still about right: about 1% a week. I’ll take it!

Eat until you’re full. Don’t leave a meal hungry. If you are, you’re not doing it right, and you are setting yourself up for failure. If you stick to the good foods (meat, vegetables, some fruit), you will lose weight even after you eat until you are full. And notice I don’t say stuffed; just full. It requires some discipline (especially if you have overeating issues like I did) but it’s doable.

Skipping Run Days

Tuesday, I skipped a run. I’ve been running every other day since September 10th, and it’s been working pretty well. I want to get to a point where I can run every day, and I thought that would begin Tuesday morning, but when the alarm clock went off, I just wasn’t feeling it. I didn’t have the overwhelming motivation to go anyway; I ran Monday, and I could still feel it in my legs. So I stayed in bed for the extra 45 minutes.

I’m glad I did.

I felt refreshed, energized, and well-rested Tuesday morning, something I haven’t felt in a few weeks. I’ve been trying to get enough sleep, but it’s looking like I haven’t been. If Monday night’s sleep and how I feel the next morning is any indication, I need more sleep.

In all honesty, I don’t ever skip actual run days. For me, these have been every other day. Tomorrow, for example, will be a run day, and unless Mother Nature is unleashing hellfire and fury from the sky, I will be out there running. I feel that my rest days have been every bit as important as the run days, and I think that these rest days have played a large role in my avoiding injury and making the progress I’ve been making.

On my non-run days, I am going to try to run, but it’s not an imperative. Yet. If I run, I’ll run. If not, then that’s okay too. But on my run days? It’s go-time!

Something else required to go the extra mile for success in weight loss

esgehr20161031I say dedication and motivation are important in a successful journey to lose weight, but this morning, I realized that there’s another ingredient that I have employed and ignored. It’s because it’s something I use for every goal I have, whether it’s to buy a new gadget or acquire a new skill. It’s perseverance.

It’s a hard word to spell correctly (thanks, spell check!) and is defined as steadfastness in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success. I couldn’t find a better word to describe what I consider to be the most important skill in achieving your weight loss goals. I can’t believe I didn’t think of this sooner. Let’s take apart the definition as it applies to achieving your goals.

Steadfastness is defined as firm in purpose, resolution, faith, attachment, etc. My purpose, when I began last year, was to lose weight and to get healthy. To me, there was no purpose greater, and no priority higher than this. Everything else came second, and a distant second at that. I didn’t allow myself any cheats nor did I stray from the course because the instant gratification didn’t outweigh my long-term goals. My faith in eating well was rewarded at the end of every month of effort.

Despite difficulty. Changing your lifestyle from being carefree to actually planning, making, and eating good foods while leaving out those that are harmful to you is difficult. It’s extremely difficult, even, for some people. Being steadfast is of paramount importance here. If it were easy, everyone would be thin and healthy. I have countless posts here with strategies for getting through the difficult times.

Delay in achieving success. There is no instant weight loss scheme. Those that promise fast, easy weight loss are lying. Losing weight takes time. Your body has to do it naturally and at its own pace to do it safely and permanently. It took me a year to lose 100 lbs, and it’s taken me two months to lose an additional 13 lbs. The last 12 lbs is going to take me another two or three months, at least. That’s okay, as I’m getting fitter and stronger while getting to that ultimate goal. The delay in achieving success, to me, only makes achieving that goal that much more special and rewarding. If getting there would have been easy, it wouldn’t have had the same value or worth.

Perseverance. Perseverance. Perseverance. It should be your mantra.

 

Discipline and Cravings

File_000 (24)Sometimes, regardless of how well you eat, you get a craving or you feel your stomach grumble. Some of us can ignore it but some of us cannot. For those who can’t (or for those times when it really gets too much to ignore), here are some tricks to help you get past the cravings.

Water

Sometimes when you feel like you’re hungry, you’re actually thirsty. Drink a glass of water and afterward ask yourself if you’re still hungry. Chances are you won’t be.

Nuts

Almonds, walnuts, pistachios, etc are a good snack to eat when you feel hungry. Take a small handful and eat them one-by-one. Be careful, though; nuts are very calorie dense and you don’t want to overdo it.

Carrots and celery

Two vegetables that are mostly fiber and water. I personally don’t find these very filling, but some people use them to stave off hunger for a bit until they can eat a regular meal.

Jerky or slice of bacon

Protein works really well for me to stave off hunger. A piece of jerky or a slice of bacon does nicely for me to hold off hunger until a meal.

Reading

I find that if I can take my mind off the hunger by reading, even if it’s just browsing Facebook or reading a blog, I will lose the craving.

Computer games (or board games)

Gaming keeps my mind off eating. I find that if I’m hungry, sitting down and playing a game, putting together a puzzle, or even doing a crossword will take my mind off the food and let me get through a tough spot.

As you get away from sugar, you will experience fewer cravings, but the reality is that from time to time, as we vary the foods we eat, some will be less satisfying than others. In those instances, you have to do something to get past the cravings which can derail your process and cause a sabotage moment. I hope these strategies can help you get past the craving and make it to your next meal without eating something bad for you.