The energy I felt when I was young wasn’t youth; it was being fit

I’m not talking about being a kid or a teenager. I’m talking about when I was in my 20’s. I felt energetic, flexible, mobile, and ready to take on the world. After I turned 30, I remember things feeling more sluggish, my body was harder to move around, and my energy levels began to drop. By my 40’s, I was feeling like the proverbial, “Old man,” especially in the mornings. I thought that what I was feeling was a normal progression of age. What I didn’t realize was that it was actually signs of declining health and fitness.

As I began losing weight, my energy levels shot up. Surely, it wasn’t due to the lost weight but to the better diet. However, as I continued to lose weight, things like flexibility, mobility, and fitness started improving. I felt better, had fewer aches and pains, and even felt mentally sharper. Things started falling into place more easily and more often. Then it struck me; this is how I felt when I was young.

We all accept aging as something inevitable and unavoidable (because DUH, it is inevitable), but the way we feel as we age is up to us*. We decide what we put into our bodies, and we decide how much exercise we get. We are the gatekeepers of our health and fitness. If you don’t want to feel sluggish and tired and dragging, then do something about it. If you lament your loss of breath when you climb a flight of stairs, do something about it. Nobody can or will do it for you. This is on your shoulders, and you have no-one to blame but yourself.

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I feel like I’m in my 20’s again. Sure, there are times when I do feel an ache or pain that is legitimately caused by age, but those days are far fewer and in between than they used to be. Best yet; often, when I run, the ache or pain melts away. It turns out that a lot of those little aches or pains are just the body wanting more activity.


*There are people who develop physical ailments, contract diseases, or suffer from a natural breakdown of body function due to the aging process. I know that we can’t exercise or eat away genetics or disease. However, I do feel that diet and exercise can mitigate many issues people face when aging.

Remember the Unicorn? Here comes the Mermaid!

Those drinks from Starbucks are anything but good for you, filled with sugar, sugar, dairy, and more sugar. They are literally the antithesis of everything in my diet, and is a symbol of what’s wrong with our American diet. We don’t see sugar for the harmful and dangerous substance that it truly is.

I didn’t try the Unicorn, and I sure as heck won’t be trying the Mermaid. Why? Aside from the fact they are filled with sugar and dairy, they don’t appeal to me. I used to drink my sugar with coffee and cream, but now that I’ve weaned myself from the sugar addiction, the last thing I want is to drink anything that has sugar in it. Not just because it’s not good for me, but because I find any drink with artificial or even natural sweeteners to be far too sweet for my palate now.

One of the strange but welcome side-effects of having cut sugar from my diet is that I can taste the natural sweetness in many foods that I thought either had lost their sweetness or weren’t sweet at all. Strawberries, cantaloupe, raspberries, blueberries, and apples are among the foods I thought weren’t as sweet as they were in my childhood. Then I cut sugar out of my diet and I found that all those fruits (and more!) are just as sweet, if not sweeter than I remembered them to be. Plums? WOW! Even more amazing. All it took was for me to take added sugar out of my diet.

If you find strawberries and other fruits to be bland, it’s likely because your diet is filled with sugar and your tongue doesn’t register the natural sweetness anymore. It’s why Starbucks makes these sugar-saturated drinks. It’s what they need to do to keep you hooked on these liquid fat grenades.

I will pass on these (and the vast majority of) Starbucks drinks, and if you want to be healthy, I recommend you do the same.

Paleo|f(x) 2017

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Sherry and me at Paleo|f(x) last year

We’re going.

I can’t wait!

It’s coming up next weekend in Austin, TX, and this time, we’re going with our friends Kenny and Elaine. Sherry and I went last year, and we had a blast! We not only learned some new things about Paleo, but we found countless food products, ingredients, and even toothpaste that fit into our Paleo lifestyle. I ate a lot of food that day and bought a lot of stuff to take with us. Many of those things have found their way into our daily lives (I’m looking at you, The Dirt!) and I look forward to buying more of some other items we enjoyed last time and stocked up on.

We may also sit in on some panels if we have time and if they are interesting. To us, the best part was finding foods we could eat without sabotaging our lifestyle and health and the many sources of ingredients and products that are available but sometimes difficult to find. Fortunately, as the Paleo Diet gains popularity and momentum, products are getting easier to find. Paleo|f(x) is definitely going to be fun, and I look forward to posting photos and reviews of products we find there this coming weekend!

Sometimes, it’s hard to not scream

This is a bit of a rant. I apologize if you feel this is directed towards you. It’s not directed at anyone in particular, but it is something I experience at least weekly.


63B6771D-When I am asked questions about losing weight, eating healthy, or fitness, I always make time for people. I answer all their questions and make sure to offer myself for any additional info, motivation, or pep talks. I do this because I believe that we’ve had so much bad information for so long, someone needs to let people in on the truth about our horrible diet that the government and our education system continues to tell us is healthy.

But then, after spending time with certain people explaining it all to them, answering their questions, and even helping them plan their new diet, I see them doing the exact opposite of what we discussed. I see them continue on with the bad habits as if we’d never talked, never made plans, and they’d never resolved to change their diet.

And then, a little while later, I hear them lamenting to someone else how their new diet hasn’t done anything for them, how what I am doing just isn’t working for them, and how their body must be completely different from mine.

It’s maddening, and sometimes I want to scream.

No, it probably has nothing to do with the cinnamon rolls you had for breakfast. Probably nothing to do with the fried chicken you ate at lunch with the rolls and potato salad. Definitely nothing to do with the Big Mac you ate for dinner.

I know. People sometimes need a few starts to get going. It’s hard to quit sugar, and not everyone has the strength to get past the initial shock of leaving sugar and bad foods behind. That’s what I keep telling myself: I had a hard time in the beginning.

So, as frustrating as it can be to see you eating your unhealthy food, I’m still in your corner. I’m here hoping you find the strength to persevere and make the changes that will improve the quality of your life, and yes, even help you lose weight. I see it as if someone were bleeding to death and I handed them a tourniquet and instructions on how to use it and the person continued to sit there and watch themselves bleed out. I guess getting rid of sugar, grains, and dairy can be a pretty big shock to the system, but you have weight to lose and a whole new life to gain!

Pinterest FTW!

Some of the latest amazing recipes Sherry found and/or modified for our meals this week. I can’t say enough how tasty these three recipes are!

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This past weekend I finally had a full Sunday to do my cooking thing, and it’s been quite a while, so I had lots of new things to try.  Recently we’ve had such lovely cool evenings that E.J. and I have been sitting out on the front porch with the Buddy monster and just relaxing – him with his pipe, and me with Pinterest.  Pinterest really is a fun way to collect ideas for Paleo recipes, because 1) there are lots of them already out there with wonderful mouth-watering photos and 2) because sometimes you find a mouth-watering photo for something that isn’t Paleo, but it wouldn’t be that hard to adjust.  Here are the Pinterest wins I had this week:

  • Paleo Chicken Pot Pie – This is apparently one of Brendon’s favorite foods, and I never really knew it.  I remember tolerating pot pieIMG_2714 as a kid – mostly…

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New low and SO CLOSE!

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Enjoying a cool morning before a dentist appointment with Buddy, our dog.

I weighed myself this morning as per my normal routine, and found that I’ve reached a new low weight: 166.9 lbs! That puts me at just under 2 more pounds until I reach my goal of 165 lbs! I’m really excited!

At my current sustained rate of weight loss, I should be there within the next week or two. I will celebrate once I’m there!

I don’t have a celebrity schedule; I can’t have a celebrity body

I was reading about Drew Carey today. He was a pretty heavy guy in the beginning of his career (he’s also a former Marine) and is now quite svelte at the helm of The Price is Right. His transformation is nothing short of amazing. For me, it’s even more amazing that he allegedly did it through exercise.

He hit the gym 6 times a week with 2-3 days per week doing intense cardio. This star lost a total of 100 pounds and now looks amazing as hosting one of the most popular TV game shows “The Price is Right!”

Ummm… wow. I couldn’t ever do that. First, I don’t have the available time to work out 2-3 days per week doing intense cardio or hitting the gym 6 times a week. Second, my muscles would explode, my heart would have given out, and I probably would have died somewhere along the way.

Weight loss can be done without exercise and without diet pills, powders, shakes, patches, or surgery. I know it can, because I did it, my wife did it, and no fewer than six of my best friends are all doing it. Now my son is also on the bandwagon and has lost over 10 lbs in the past few weeks. We all did it without exercise.

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All this weight loss was done without exercise.

Whole30 and/or following the Paleo Diet is all it took. And before you think Paleo is a deprivation or starvation diet (and you couldn’t be more wrong!), it limits only the following:

  • Refined sugar and artificial sweeteners
  • Grains
  • Dairy
  • Legumes and Soy
  • Alcohol

Now, I know what you’re thinking because I had the same thoughts when initially looking at Paleo: but I love so many foods with those things in them! Guess what; me too! But I love being healthy, fit, and no longer diabetic SO MUCH MORE! Besides, while most people concentrate on the foods they can no longer have when looking at Paleo, I suggest you focus on the things you can still enjoy that you love today:

  • Steak
  • Sausage*
  • Bacon*
  • Ribs*
  • Brisket
  • Chicken
  • Lobster
  • Fish
  • Shrimp
  • Vegetables
  • Fruits

*With no sugar added

Honestly, there is so much out there available to me to eat that I no longer miss those things I’m not supposed to eat. Seriously; the food I eat is so delicious that I honestly don’t miss many foods. And when I absolutely must have something like a chocolate tort or a hot dog, there are Paleo options available that are quite amazing (albeit either time consuming to prepare or with a higher than I’m comfortable with carb content).

Don’t think you have to exercise yourself to death to get the body of a celebrity; you don’t. You just have to eat right. It’s not easy, but it is simple. Take a look at Whole30 and The Paleo Diet. For recipe ideas (and to get a glimpse into the kinds of foods my wife and I eat at home), check out my wife Sherry’s blog.

TMI Time: Extra Skin After Weight Loss

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A difference of over 140 lbs.

This is something I get asked pretty often once people become more comfortable with me and feel like they can ask me more personal questions. I’m okay with it, as I’m not the most modest person when it comes to body image. “Do you have a lot of extra skin since you lost so much weight?” Fair question, and it was one of my major concerns when I started on this weight loss and fitness journey. The short answer is, “Not really.”

I have seen many photos and heard accounts of people who had lost 100+ lbs and they have flabs of skin hanging off of them. These people typically lost their weight very quickly, likely a result of either gastric bypass surgery or a lap band. These people will lose weight very quickly, and as a result, the skin doesn’t have time to shrink over the lost body mass.

Since I lost my weight naturally and without the aid of surgery or other outside sources, my loss was at a slower, albeit rather steady pace. I lost about 6-10 lbs/month on average which, while it seems very vast, in the grand scheme of things, is considered a healthy and safe rate of loss. As a result, my body has done a decent job of shrinking the skin around my reduced frame. Is it perfect? Of course not; I have lost over 140 lbs so far, and it’s hard for the body to shrink the skin that much within a year and a half. However, the amount of extra skin I have is pretty negligible, and I can see it continue to shrink monthly. I am not sure if my running is helping, or if it’s just a natural process taking place, but there is more and more of my muscles showing and less and less skin surrounding it.

WARNING: The following is a photo of me without clothing on. It is definitely not safe for work, and I recommend not opening it anyplace where nudity is frowned upon. I am covered from showing anything graphic, but I am otherwise not wearing any clothing. I am posting this photo only to demonstrate that you can lose 140 lbs in 18 months and not have a lot of skin hanging off your body.

You have been warned!

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Anniversary Dinner

IMG_6532 (Edited)My wife surprised me with a dinner at one of the top-3 rated restaurants for romantic dates and anniversaries in the Houston area: Chez Nous. It is located in Humble, and is in an unassuming residential area. While the outside appears to be a re-purposed residential dwelling, the inside is lavishly French. The staff are outstanding, and the food was beyond delicious. However, there were some non-Paleo choices made, and we’re okay with that.

First, it began with the bread. They served a sour dough roll that had just come out of the oven and was made from scratch. I had a roll with some butter on it; it was simply heavenly. I’ve always loved sour dough, but their was divine. Next was a plate of fois gras with toast cut into triangles. The toast was very light and crunch, and the fois gras was delicious. The main course was a Chateaubriand that Sherry and I shared, prepared medium-rare and served with spiralized squash, mashed potatoes, and carrots. This meal was also amazing and full of flavor. For dessert, Sherry decided we had to have the Grand Marnier Souffle, which she ordered. When it was brought to us, we were told that another was coming as well, as the chef wanted us to have a special one. We ate the first souffle and awaited the second. When it arrived, we knew why the chef wanted us to have this one; in chocolate, it was written (in French), “Happy Anniversary.” Souffles are very light, and we easily ate the second one. We finished the evening with complimentary bubbly wine.

The experience was stellar and memorable. We ate some delicious fare we otherwise stay away from, but this time, we ate them without fear, guilt, or regret. The next morning, my weight was right where it normally is, and I felt fine without any major bloating or swelling.

Every now and then, it’s okay to eat non-Paleo foods. Sherry and I were as careful as we could be, but in the end, our decisions were as Paleo as they could be without limiting our ability to enjoy ourselves with a little bit of naughtiness. It was well worth it!

Sleep Apnea

There’s something I’ve been forgetting to mention when I talk about the positive changes in my life since doing my first Whole30 and adopting the Paleo Diet: sleep apnea. When I was heavy, and for as long as I can remember, I’ve suffered from sleep apnea. As I got older and heavier, it got worse. It had reached a point where my wife and kids were concerned, so I talked to my doctor about it. He recommended a sleep study which confirmed it: I had sleep apnea. The prescription was a CPAP which I used every night to keep me from the long pauses in breathing caused by sleep apnea.

After my Whole30, I decided to try to sleep without the CPAP. I found I was not only able to do so, but I was no longer snoring. I don’t know if it was the weight loss or the change in diet that made the difference, but either way, eating healthier has made my sleep apnea a thing of the past.

Add that to the list of health issues that living healthy has reversed. This includes:

  • Diabetes (blood sugar well within normal range)
  • Cholesterol normal
  • Weight normal
  • Sleep apnea (gone)
  • Vision (improved, likely diabetes related)
  • Tingling of extremities (gone)
  • Joint pain (gone)

I also find that I catch colds less often, and when I do, I seem to recover more quickly.